It only hurts when you think off all the things our grandparents suffered and sacrificed to stay devoted and true to Jewish life. In fact they sacrificed life itself so as not to have to compromise on any aspect of Jewish life taught to them by their parents and their parents before them. Now, however, recently in New York most of those things were analyzed and explained away and perhaps gathered in a neat little intellectual pile before it is placed on a shelf or at least some place similar but out of the way.